Being single and married has always issues and contradictions when we speak about hard and easy or sad and happy. Being single means you can do whatever you want. You can stay up late at night on clubs and probably waste your money on the stuffs that you desire. Or let us just say that life being single is easy, but the question is, does it also means being completely happy? If you hate responsibilities or may not hate but not yet ready for such or might as well think that being married is easier than being single, then don’t get married. People often aspires a wonderful life they will have once they get married.
Unfortunately, often times as well, these dreams are fugacious or short-lived. The realness of married life requires over-the-top efforts, sacrifices and risks. As much as you are familiar with marriage vows which goes like; for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part. Now that’s deep, and it is really deep for you have to endure that vow for a lifetime. There is a high price that you pay to create and maintain a happy marriage. So, you should be willing to pay that price.
Some married couples has been tough for the past years of their marriage life and remained stronger, but some, clearly not good to hear, ended separated and divorced. But there are cases that somehow both parties would agree on being ok with each other for the sake of their children. Concerns and focus in this kind of situations are very crucial to the children. Drug addicts, rebel teenagers, prostitutes and such are usually a product of broken families. We’ve all heard it before, money or financial problems are one the reasons why married couple or divorce cases triggers. People who fight about money have a higher rate of divorce. Though, money problems is the symptom of a bigger foundational problem and may be a predictor of future divorce, ultimately it is really not about the money, it is about so much more than that. Money could have also just a problem on the surface, if we look deeper on it, it is also about pride, perception, expectations, discontentment, unresolved childhood issues that revolve around money, and lack of shared values. And couples never get to the heart of the issue. Never dig deep to the root and never fix the real problem.
